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Create a space of happiness and success around you! 10 Most Important Lessons.

Lesson 1.
Finding Unconditional Love.

Feel loved and the world will instantly change.

The success of any communication, any relationship begins with unconditional love. Simply because Divine, or unconditional love (love that does not set any conditions and does not depend on anything) is the only creative force in the Universe. If we want success in anything, if we want positive results, we must start with love. This applies to any business. Everything we approach with love receives a very powerful charge of Divine energies.

They come to us, into our lives, precisely through our own feeling of unconditional love. If we carry unconditional love within us, we become conductors of powerful Divine energies. And these energies begin to work for us. They begin to create all the best that we want to receive. They bring us success.

Relationships are doomed to success if they are built on the foundation of unconditional love!

Look at any relationship that is not working or failing. The only reason is that some low-frequency energies interfered with them, different from the energies of unconditional love. Maybe these are the energies of resentment or condemnation, anger or envy, an egoistic desire for self-affirmation and power… All these are destroyers of relationships.

Unconditional love is the only force that can create the most beautiful relationships!

It is very important to understand: unconditional love is not selective. Unconditional love is a feeling that anyone can feel for anyone.

We did not forget about our Divine essence, then we would know that all people really love each other with unconditional love. This is a natural phenomenon for that Divine family of which we are all members. We only need to remember this to understand that there is nothing unusual or complicated about unconditional love. It is in our very nature. But our nature turned out to be distorted.

Therefore, we forgot about what is natural for us and began to follow what is unnatural for us: dislike, rejection, condemnation of each other, and sometimes even hatred.

All this seems normal because it has become a habit, but in reality it is not the norm. And the more people understand this, the easier it will be for all of us to return to the true norm – to unconditional love for each other as pure Divine beings.

You need to be aware: unconditional love is precisely Divine love, love in its highest manifestation. This is the love with which God treats people. This is love that does not attach importance to shortcomings and imperfections, love that is all-forgiving and absolutely selfless.

In human society, unfortunately, there is a substitution of concepts. They began to call love something completely different from what God intended in this word. Love is the powerful creative force of the Universe. This is the power of accepting everything as it is. This is a force aimed at the unity of all things with God. This is a protective, protective force, this is warm and gentle care, this is an approving and supportive force.

People began to call manifestations of completely different energies love. So, they began to call love their possessive feeling of subjugation of another person, the feeling of possession, their desire to influence others, as well as dependence on others. Because of this substitution of concepts, relationships collapse. Because only unconditional love connects people. All other feelings, only counterfeited as love, are incapable of uniting people and can only break off relationships.

Human love is often demanding. Human love often wants to get something from the object of love. Human love can claim power and subjugation. Human love requires reward and gratitude.

I say “human” to emphasize its differences from Divine love. But this does not mean that Divine love cannot become human. To do this, it must cease to be conditional – setting conditions, and become unconditional – free from any conditions and requirements.

Every person has experienced manifestations of unconditional love at least once in their life. It is impossible not to feel them, because this is our true nature. And no matter how distorted our ideas about love may be, we still know deep down what it is to love and be loved unconditionally. This means that we are faced with the task of just remembering how this feeling manifests itself.

Exercise 1

Revive the feeling of being loved.

Surely you have felt loved more than once, and you can remember this. Maybe it was in childhood when you felt that you were valuable just the way you are, that you were loved and accepted without any criticism, without any judgment, without anyone wanting you to “be better.” Maybe it was already in adulthood when you felt the love of another person.

But it is possible that this feeling arose in you even without connection with the attitude of other people towards you. Thus, many children feel deep down in their souls that they are loved by the world, the Universe, God, nature, everything that exists – even if the people around them do not confirm this with their behavior.

Maybe this feeling (“I am loved!”) didn’t come to you often, maybe it was fleeting, but it’s probably happened to you!

Remember a situation in which you felt something similar, and remember the feeling itself: “I am loved.” If this was due to other people’s love for you, then, most likely, later this feeling disappeared and was replaced by other feelings, not so positive – for example, jealousy, resentment, addiction. But, one way or another, you had the feeling that you were loved, and it was real, it was yours, and it became part of your experience – regardless of all subsequent disappointments.

When we associate the feeling of “I am loved” with other people, disappointment is usually inevitable. But we can realize that this feeling does not only depend on other people. When you felt that someone loved you, you looked at yourself with different eyes – loving ones. You felt that you were given the right to love and accept yourself as you are. And if you enjoyed the feeling that you were loved, if the whole world seemed completely different at that moment, bright and beautiful, the reason was precisely because you felt your right to be loved and gave yourself the right to love yourself, to treat yourself well.

Now you just need to resurrect this feeling in yourself (after all, it is part of your real experience), regardless of other people’s attitude towards you. You can remember that you are loved because God loves you. And this love does not depend on anything. It doesn’t depend on whether someone else still loves you or not. People’s love is usually not unconditional, so it can change. God’s love is unconditional and therefore unchanging.

Having resurrected the feeling “I am loved,” look at yourself through the eyes of a loving God. Strive to ensure that this feeling accompanies you always and everywhere. If you forgot, remind yourself that you are loved!

This way you will gradually come to a constant feeling of unconditional love that accompanies you in life always and everywhere.

Find the Divine Source of Love Within You.

The main source of unconditional love is God. But since each of us is Divine by nature, or Human-God, the source of unconditional love is within every person. This source is our true essence, our loving Spirit. When we feel loved and allow ourselves to be loved, we are in touch with that source. But most people don’t realize this. Most people still believe that you can only feel loved when someone else loves you.

It turns out that you believe that this other person knows better whether you are worthy of love or not. And you allow this other (even a close and loved one) to decide whether you can feel loved or not. At the same time, for some reason you do not give yourself the right to feel loved without any conditions.

This is due to the habit of not trusting oneself. We trust other people more than ourselves! We allow other people to determine whether we are worthy of love or not.

But each of us knows and understands himself much better than other people. Others may not understand something, judge us for something, or deprive us of their love. But this does not mean that we, like them, should deprive ourselves of the right to love!

Remember that God does not deprive anyone of the right to be loved!

And if you are a particle, a ray, a spark of God, if you are God-human by nature (and each of us is exactly like that!), then you, as God, can give yourself the right to love – the right to love and be loved.

Having discovered the source of love in yourself, you will no longer depend on the attitude of other people towards you. You will give them the right to their opinion, to their attitude towards you – but this will not influence you. Because the one who has discovered the source of love in himself is above all influences.

Exercise 2.

The source of Divine love is within you.

Stay alone with yourself, close your eyes, direct your attention inward. Calmly and quietly say to yourself: “I.” Listen to the resonance that arises within you, in your inner space. Continue: “I am the Light. I am the love. I am God.” Feel these words. Mark the point within yourself where they seem to resonate, respond. Imagine that a light flashes brightly at this point.

This is the light of Divine love.

Mentally connect with this point – the source of Divine love within you. Imagine that your entire inner space and your entire body are filled with radiance. Tell yourself: “The source of love is always with me. He’s in me. It does not depend on anything external. This is an eternal and inexhaustible source. Nothing can affect him. God’s love is unchanging. God’s love is with me.”

Stay in the light of love, imagine yourself bathing in its warm and soft waves. Notice how your condition has changed. You feel calm strength, quiet joy, peace, tranquility, self-sufficiency, security. This is how Divine love works!

Turn unconditional love into your strength and support.

Having found the source of love within yourself, you need to consciously begin to direct this love to yourself. This is the only way to turn love into strength – into your own personal strength. This strength will become the support for any of your actions, achievements, successes. It will also become a support for successful communication.

Often people are mistaken, thinking that for a good relationship you need to treat others well, love them, but you don’t have to love yourself. But it is impossible to love others without loving yourself first. This seems to be a simple truth, but it is not always easy to learn in practice.

You must share love first with yourself, and then with others!

Because if we cannot direct the flow of Divine love even to ourselves, we simply do not have enough strength and energy to love someone else unconditionally.

To hold yourself in a state of unconditional love, to turn that love into your own power, requires training. After all, the outside world continually knocks us out of the state of Divine love. Someone else’s opinions, our own failures, the habit of comparing ourselves with others and other factors make us doubt ourselves, undermine our self-esteem and simply block the flow of Divine love.

As a result, we cannot access the source of this love, even though this source is within ourselves. It requires the ability to return again and again to the state of “I am loved” and strengthen your inner foundation, personal strength based on unconditional love.

To gain this skill, begin to fulfill the following three conditions:

– Accept as an axiom the fact that you are worthy of love, and this is not discussed. Let go of all thoughts that you are not perfect enough, that you need to be better first, etc. Remember that unconditional love does not require any conditions. Tell yourself that you are worthy of love just the way you are.

– Learn to distance yourself from other people’s opinions. See yourself through the eyes of a loving God, not other people.

– Stop comparing yourself to others. For God, everyone is equal and everyone is equally worthy of love. No one is worse or better than another.

By accepting and following these three conditions, you will find it increasingly easier to remain in a state of unconditional love. You will feel that you are becoming stronger, gaining an inner core, and it will be more and more difficult for the outside world to knock you out of your Divinity, from the state of love and unconditional acceptance of yourself. Change may come slowly, but it will come steadily. Notice even the slightest changes for the better in your condition, let them become an incentive to further move forward.

The following exercise will help you regain your power in situations where some external influences deprive you of access to the source of Divine love.

Exercise 3.

Regain your power.

Sit in a comfortable free position, direct your attention inward, mentally connect with your inner source of Divine love. Regain the feeling of being loved by seeing yourself through the eyes of a loving God. Ask your Creator to show you what is stopping you from feeling fully loved and finding your power.

Ask your Divine Self the question: “Who or what am I allowing to take away my power?”

Listen to the inner silence for a few seconds. Then try to understand the answer you receive. To do this, think about the situation or person that you think is preventing you from feeling loved. Usually the first thing that comes to mind is the correct answer.

Think about what specifically makes you feel like you are “not good enough” or “unworthy of being loved.” Remind yourself that it is a misconception that you, like all people, are loved by God and worthy of that love.

Then mentally surround with a cocoon of the love and light of God that person who makes you feel that you are not good enough (or, if this is not related to the person, but is caused, for example, by some kind of failure – imagine an image of this situation, its picture and yourself in it, and also surround him with a cocoon of love and light of God).

Then take a deep breath and say, “I am loved! I am worthy of love! Now I’m taking back my power!” Imagine that you are inhaling the energy that you gave to this person or this situation, and it flows into your body, making you stronger. Then exhale slowly, completely exhaling all the air from your lungs, and say: “I am clearing the dissonant energies received from this person (this situation),” and imagine how you exhale these unnecessary energies.

Then say: “I ask the Creator to dispose of the energies I do not need in a way that is appropriate.” You don’t have to imagine how dissonant energies return to the person who caused them – entrust God to dispose of them.

Take a few more similar inhalations and exhalations to fully regain your strength and completely free yourself from unnecessary energies.

Repeat this exercise as often as you see fit – and preferably after every undesirable situation and after every meeting with people who make you uncomfortable and knock you out of your stay in Divinity.

Start sending unconditional love to others in any situation.

Only by establishing ourselves in the feeling “I am loved”, only by gaining internal strength through this – the strength that allows us not to succumb to external influences and not lose touch with the source of Divine love – can we interact harmoniously with other people. Harmonious relationships and, in general, any full-fledged communication are possible only in the energies of love. Where these energies are absent, where they are replaced by other energies – associated with a feeling of rejection of oneself and others – there any relationship is doomed to failure.

It is very important to enter into communication with a feeling of being loved, complete and worthwhile. Then you will be able to convey a harmonious positive message to other people. Even if there is a hostile person in front of you, he will feel a positive message from you.

There are people who try to provoke us into displaying dissonant energies. They themselves are inharmonious, and seem to call us to join their dissonance. If we feel the strength of our inner source of love, then we can hold our line, that is, not get involved in the dissonance of another person, no matter how much he tries to pull us into it. Remember that you have the power and your own will. Don’t blindly follow others’ lead. Don’t allow yourself to be drawn into their dissonances. Learn to send unconditional love to everyone, and especially to those with whom you come into contact.

The question often arises: how can we send unconditional love to those who do not love us, wish us harm, treat us badly, or even hate us? But unconditional love is unconditional, so as not to depend on such conditions either! If there is any protest within you against sending love to such people, remember that all people carry a spark of Divinity within themselves.

Yes, there are people who betrayed their own Divinity and do various dark things. But still, a spark of Divinity is present in them, although they themselves may not know about it. Send unconditional love to their Divine Self! If your love towards them is truly unconditional, strong and sincere, a miracle can happen: these people will begin to change, or events in their lives will begin to unfold in such a way that they will no longer be able to do dark things.

This is how, without engaging in open struggle, without fighting, with one message of unconditional love you can neutralize darkness and change the world for the better!

Exercise 4.

Sending unconditional love to others.

Think about the people you interact with most often and with whom you would like to improve your relationship. If a relationship is not good enough, it means there is a lack of unconditional love. Don’t wait for the other person to show you that kind of love! After all, in this case, your love will no longer be unconditional. It turns out that you set conditions: “First you show your love, and only then will I show mine.”

Unconditional love does not wait for any reason to be shown. You don’t need to strive to change your outward behavior to do this. You just need to imagine that you are sending this person a flow of love energy from your heart!

Direct this flow by addressing the Divine Self of this person. You can mentally say: “I direct the flow of Divine love from my Divine Self to your Divine Self.” If such words do not really help you, if it is easier for you to imagine the energy of love in the form of a warm, soft flow of light, or to feel such a flow at the level of sensations – do what is more convenient for you, what works best for you.

Be sure to listen to your feelings when you do this, they will tell you how best to direct such a flow.

You will definitely feel that something has changed in your relationship. The flow of love always prevents conflicts, quarrels, aggravation of relationships and instills gentleness, warmth, and mutual understanding.

If you don’t succeed the first time, practice again and again. Notice when you get out of this state of love and consciously return yourself to it in any situation.

Find protection and invulnerability through unconditional love.

There is such a misconception that to start giving unconditional love to everyone means becoming vulnerable to them, allowing yourself to be used, and being subordinate to others.

Kryon refutes such opinions; he says that things are exactly the opposite: the one who carries unconditional love in himself turns out to be protected, invulnerable to any harm. After all, love, as we already know, is not only a feeling, it is also energy, that is, real power.

The more unconditional love we carry within ourselves, the more energy we have, which nourishes our Spirit, giving it literally a diamond strength!

This means that no one can influence us against our will, no one will force us to do something that we don’t want to do, no one will force us to abandon our interests, tasks, goals and needs.

Unconditional love is Divine love. This is the love with which God loves all things, including every person. God loves you with unconditional love – but is God vulnerable to you? Can you manipulate God or use Him for your own purposes? Can you force God to act the way you want if it is not His will?

No. If you don’t like some Divine laws, you cannot influence God so that He changes these laws. You can decide for yourself whether to follow these laws or not. This is a matter of your free will. But whether or not to repeal the laws themselves is a matter of God’s free will, over which you have no control.

When we carry unconditional love within ourselves and share it with others, we become like God: we become invulnerable, we become free, we become able to independently establish the laws of our lives and not allow them to be violated.

Exercise 5.

Divine love is the best defense.

Sit in a comfortable position, close your eyes, breathe deeply and steadily to relax and drive away extraneous thoughts. Focus your attention on the heart area and connect with your Divine center.

Mentally ask the Creator to place you in the flow of Divine love and light. Imagine that you are inside a stream that flows from above, from infinity, and goes deep into the earth. It is an iridescent, shining white light.

Now mentally ask the cells of your body to accept this Divine light and, with its help, activate your own Divine nature. Imagine watching light enter the cells and they burst into white, glowing light. Now you are engulfed in light both outside and inside. You have united your human nature and your Divine nature.

The Divine light also burns in your eyes. This is the light of Divine love, unconditional love, because the nature of love and Divine light are one. Love and light – this is God!

Imagine that your Divine nature is looking at the world through your eyes. Mentally direct this light to your loved ones, your friends, acquaintances, and then to those whom you consider an enemy or ill-wisher. You will notice that you can wish him well, and that his attitude towards you no longer affects you. You see in him the same Divine being as you yourself, which means you no longer judge his behavior, even if it is far from perfect or, from your point of view, contrary to Divine laws.

Learn to maintain this state first alone with yourself, and then you will be able to maintain it when communicating with other people, and, as a result, be invulnerable.

Summary. 

To build harmonious relationships with other people and communicate successfully, you need to learn unconditional love. To do this you need:

– revive the feeling that you are loved, and strive to constantly maintain it within yourself,
– find the source of Divine love within yourself,
– turn unconditional love into your strength and support,
– learn to send streams of unconditional love to other people (everyone without exception), in any situation,
– enter a state of invulnerability and protection by the energies of unconditional love.

(translation from book “Kryon. Create a space of happiness and success around you! 10 Most Important Lessons)

With Love, Liberty

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