Getting out of Loneliness | Liberty

Lesson 4.
Getting out of loneliness.

Connect with the Angelic Family.

Loneliness is an illusion. Loneliness does not exist. After all, all people are members of a single Divine family. Moreover, this family includes not only people, but also angels! In addition, it also includes those who have left earthly life, whom we consider d**d. But in the Divine house, d***h does not exist. It is only an illusion of the three-dimensional world. And, returning to the Divine home, we joyfully reunite with those whom we considered irretrievably lost.

And while we live on Earth, our connection also exists – with everyone: with the living, with the departed, and with the angels, that is, with the entire Divine family, with what is commonly called the word God!

Loneliness is a feeling that is not always determined by circumstances. You may feel lonely in a crowd, or you may not feel lonely when you are in complete solitude.

What does it mean? This means that there is no loneliness as such. This is just your subjective feeling. It is due to the fact that you live in conditions of materiality. Materiality is a veil over your eyes. You don’t see the true picture of the world.

You may feel like you are abandoned and forgotten by everyone. That no one knows about you, and no one is able to appreciate you. That there is no one who would understand and love you. And you suffer about this.

Oh, dear ones, if you only knew how many loving beings are around you at such moments! How many sympathetic eyes are fixed on you, and how many streams of love wash over you! If you just want, you will feel it, and your tears will dry up instantly, and all your suffering will evaporate without a trace!

Every person can feel the presence of angels if that is his intention. Having felt such a presence at least once, you will no longer doubt the reality of angels, their care, help, love, support. Your feeling of loneliness will begin to melt, and eventually dissolve completely.

You just need to take into account one important thing that Kryon talks about: angels are not some kind of external force in relation to us. People and angels are not just one family, they are one whole. Imagine the closest relationship possible. How often do we want our loved ones to be a part of us, our continuation, our second “I”. But in relationships with people this happens very rarely, and our desires are not fulfilled, we are disappointed. But in relationships with angels, such disappointment simply cannot happen, because they really are a part of us, our continuation, our other “I”.

Treat angels this way – not as a foreign, external force, but as the dearest beings, the closest ones, your continuation on the Divine levels of existence. Then you will feel real warmth, closeness, feel what it is like to be enveloped in angelic love. Loneliness in this situation simply cannot exist.

Exercise 1
Connection with the heavenly Divine family, angels.

Be alone with yourself. Close your eyes. Banish any distracting thoughts. Tell yourself that you are in the mood for something very good right now. You are determined to meet the closest and most loving beings.

Imagine that somewhere there are those who love you very much. These are your closest souls, or your second “I”. These loving beings know everything about you, understand you like no one else, and are always ready to help and sympathize with you. They love and accept you for who you are, unconditionally, without the slightest hint of criticism, misunderstanding or judgment.

There is no need to imagine any specific images. Just imagine a flow of warmth, love and care that softly and tenderly envelops you. This is exactly the kind of love that you have always wanted to receive, but that you may not have received from people.

Feel the gaze of the most loving eyes on you. This look is simultaneously admiring, approving, and pacifying, calming you down.

Feel their presence – a real presence in your life. They actually exist. After all, not only what we see with our physical eyes is real. There are also the eyes of the soul, and much more is available to them.

You feel warmth and understanding addressed to you. You feel peace, tranquility, comfort, quiet joy. All worries go away, you relax, you want to smile.

Thank the owner of these invisible eyes for the goodness and love that they radiate. Remember that these eyes always look at you only with love and approval – no matter what happens in your life.

When you feel the gaze of loving eyes enveloping you with warmth and peace – this is the feeling of connection with the angels.

Establish an invisible connection with members of your Divine family on Earth.

Communication with angels is very important; it is with the establishment of this connection that many people begin to overcome loneliness. This is the first step, but it must be followed by another – connection with other people. We live among people, and to completely avoid contact with others, limiting ourselves to communication with the angelic family, would be wrong.

We all need communication. And if you have problems with this, it means that you do not have an established internal connection with other people!

You can begin to feel this connection even while in solitude. You just need to understand correctly: establishing such a connection does not mean starting to get involved in other people’s dramas, taking on their problems and mentally living someone else’s life, not your own. This connection must be established at the level of unconditional love, at the level of Divinity.

You can, even while in complete solitude, feel your unity with other people, familiar and unfamiliar, those who are close and those who are far from you. And your solitude will immediately cease to be loneliness! Loneliness will leave your life forever. Even if you find yourself in the desert, where there is not a single living person for many miles around, you will not be alone. The very concept of loneliness will cease to exist for you.

It is important not to forget that all people are brothers and sisters, that at deep levels all people know each other, everyone loves each other and everyone is connected to each other. Then the barriers separating you from other people will disappear. The very reason for loneliness will disappear.

We are not alone and have never been alone!

But since we are powerful, we ourselves can create our own reality with the help of thought and intention. And if we consider ourselves lonely, if we think of ourselves as lonely, we actually begin to feel lonely, and thus cut off contacts with our own kind. If we feel our deep connection with other people, contacts are established and loneliness goes away.

Exercise 2.
Connection with your earthly Divine family, people.

Close your eyes and imagine that many, many people are reading this book with you and working on it, and also listening to the words of Kryon and reading his messages.

You are all in a space of light and love, where both people and angels have gathered together. This is your Divine family. Here everyone loves and understands each other even without words. Here are your friends, like-minded people, your closest and beloved people. Imagine that many loving eyes are turned to you, and you are enveloped in the energies of love, care, warm attention and understanding.

Mentally send your love and well wishes to all the people and angels around you. You will feel a connection between your Divine Self and the Divine essence of everyone to whom you have sent your love. This connection will always stay with you.

Wherever you are, you can feel the presence of your Divine family, experience their love, attention, warmth and care. From now on, your feeling of loneliness and your fear of loneliness will go away. In addition, you will notice that in your ordinary reality more loving and understanding people appear around you, and it becomes easier for you to open up to communication with such people.

Get rid of the illusion of abandonment and rejection.

We are never alone – but we can feel alone. Notice this difference: being lonely and feeling lonely are not the same thing. We feel lonely because we are subject to the illusion of loneliness, because we do not know about the invisible connections between all people, between people and angels, between man and God. Without knowing about these connections, we cannot feel them. That is why we experience loneliness instead of a happy feeling of unity.

What are the reasons for such an illusion?

The main reason is that we live in a three-dimensional world where there is an illusion of separation. Here our unity is not manifested explicitly. But we sometimes feel very clearly separated from each other, alone. But once you tune your consciousness to the perception of Divine reality, everything will change.

But there are additional reasons, and one of them is the habit of loneliness, learned from childhood. This habit could develop if we felt abandoned or rejected. All people go through this in one way or another – if only because at the moment of birth the soul feels torn from a loving angelic family.

If a child ends up in a loving family, the feeling of abandonment may be smoothed out, but it does not go away completely. In addition, even the most loving family cannot always satisfy the enormous need for love, intimacy, warmth and affection that every child has. Parents may be too busy with their own affairs, they may be tired, they may simply not be attentive enough at some point – and this is already enough for the little soul to feel abandoned again and again.

The experience of abandonment, rejection, abandonment is somehow imprinted in the soul of every person, for some to a lesser extent, and for others to a greater extent. In adulthood, this can lead to fear of any communication: the person thinks that any relationship will end in tears anyway, that he will be abandoned or abandoned. Some people even consciously choose loneliness, recluse, in order to protect themselves from connections with people, breaking with whom could cause pain.

We are never truly abandoned. Abandonment is nothing more than an illusion. And if you feel that you are being haunted by a feeling of abandonment, that it is preventing you from building relationships, you need to consciously go through this fear.

Treat the fear of abandonment as a lesson: it is given to you so that you remember your Divinity, and realize that God and your Divine family will never abandon you.

Think about whether you have a habit of blaming yourself for someone leaving you. Don’t you think there’s something wrong with you? Remember that you are not to blame for anything, stop judging yourself. Otherwise, it turns out that you are also rejecting yourself. When we stop rejecting ourselves, others stop rejecting us.

Face your fear and start acting in spite of it. Are you afraid that you will be rejected or abandoned, and therefore withdraw from communication, from relationships? Enter into this relationship with confidence, and tell yourself that you will only get positive experiences from it, no matter how events unfold.

We always get exactly what our intention is. If you expect to be abandoned, there is a high probability that this will happen. If you don’t be afraid, you will have a much greater chance of success!

Exercise 3.
Feel like someone who is never abandoned or rejected.

Think about a time when you felt abandoned or rejected. If you don’t remember the details of the situation, model it in your imagination as best you can. The main thing is not the situation itself, but the feelings that you experienced. Relive those feelings again. Don’t hide from them. Admit to yourself that you feel abandoned and rejected, and it hurts.

Then imagine seeing angels and your entire Divine family around you. They wipe away your tears. They console you. You are literally bathing in streams of love. You understand that they have always been, are and will be there. You have never been and never will be abandoned. Connect with your Divine essence.

Tell yourself on behalf of your spiritual essence, the angel: “I am always with you. I love you. I will never leave you.”

Start to perceive the situation in which you were abandoned as a game, a convention, as something illusory. This is just an appearance – in fact, no one has ever left you. Remember and keep these feelings in your soul – acceptance, love, warmth, care, attention.

Live in this state – and you will never again feel abandoned or afraid of it.

Free yourself from outdated vows of loneliness to God.

Kryon also talks about another significant reason why we may feel lonely and unable to enter into the kind of relationships that we need. The fact is that in this or in past incarnations, consciously or unconsciously, we could give God vows of loneliness, hermitage and celibacy.

In former times, the path of serving God was practically impossible without these vows. Kryon says that people who are now reading his messages and following the path of spiritual development are not the first incarnation who are looking for their paths to God. Many of them were monks and hermits in past lives. The vows they made to God then remain valid to this day. These vows pass with us from incarnation to incarnation.

But we must keep in mind that in previous times the energy of the Earth itself did not contribute to the awakening of people, did not help the return of their Divinity. While the Earth was sinking deeper into materiality, the path back to God was very difficult. And people seeking God moved away from contacts with their own kind, and in general from life as usual for the majority – in order to free themselves as much as possible from the captivity of the low-frequency energies operating on Earth, the carriers of which were huge masses of people.

Now, when the very energy of the Earth contributes to our path to God, when humanity is preparing for the collective Ascension along with the planet, there is no point in leaving people.

On the contrary, the time has come to return from hermithood, from solitude – after all, the current development of the Universe is aimed at unity, and not at division, as before. Therefore, we need to free ourselves from vows that no longer serve us for our good, but only slow down our movement forward.

To do this, it is enough to realize that you have such vows and express your intention to free yourself from them, turning it to God. This can be accompanied by a r****l, as the following exercise suggests.

Exercise 4
R****l of liberation from vows of loneliness, celibacy, hermitage.

Stay alone with yourself, light candles, tune in to an elevated, solemn mood.

Turn to God with approximately the following words: “Dear God, I ask you to free me from the vows of loneliness, celibacy, and hermitage, if I gave them to You in past incarnations. At one time, I needed these vows, as they helped me seek and find ways to God, and succeed in serving Him. But at present, these vows only limit me and prevent me from fully expressing my Divinity.

I am the Divine Spirit experiencing life on Earth in human form, and my task is to realize my Divine essence by living a full human life, without giving up communication, relationships, personal life and all human joys. The time has come for me to free myself from the binding, limiting vows.

I express my firm intention to become free from them from now on. From now on, all vows of loneliness, hermitage, celibacy and the like have no power over me. By my will and the will of God, I deprive them of their power. Let it be so”.

With these words, take any objects that may symbolize for you the vows from which you are releasing: these could be just scraps of paper, or twisted threads, or ordinary matches – and burn them in the flame of a candle (or in any other source of fire – naturally, observing the necessary safety rules). Look at the fire and imagine that it is burning the oaths and vows you made in past lives that limited you.

When everything is burned, wash off the ashes with running water or bury them in the ground. Thank God for your liberation and for the beginning of your new life, where you will be free from vows, oaths and other restrictions that interfere with your communication with people.

Enter into communication with an open heart.

To get out of loneliness, you must be ready to enter into communication with an open heart, and not be afraid of it. Don’t hide, don’t close yourself off from people!

Don’t forget that people intuitively feel how we treat them, and pay us the same. It is no coincidence that they say “do not judge, lest you be judged.” If you remember that all people are essentially Divine, all are one family and love each other (even though they do not remember it), you will be able to maintain light and love in your heart, no matter what happens around you and with whom you neither had to communicate.

Even if others show you the opposite, remember that in fact there is love hidden behind this!

You are all one and you are all loved by each other. Yes, you have forgotten about it, but still, deep down, each of you loves each other. You act out dramas and tragedies, you are sometimes in judgment and even in hatred towards each other – but all these are games, all these are illusions, all this is not reality, dear ones. If you remember this, you will not need to fear judgment and criticism. You will not need to be afraid of bad attitude from others if you know that this is just an appearance, just a chimera behind which the truth is hidden, and this truth is love.

Tune in to see the good in people, or rather, the best thing in everyone: their Divinity. And people will respond, turning to you with their best side. So, with just your attitude you will help people discover in themselves the brightness that is in them.

And don’t be afraid to be vulnerable: remember that only those who bring love and light are truly protected, because being in Divinity is the best protection.

Exercise 5.
An attitude of openness and goodwill towards people.

Every morning, before you leave the house, tune in to keep light and love in your heart, and broadcast these energies outward, directing them to everyone you meet along the way, familiar and unfamiliar. You don’t need to demonstrate this in any way, you don’t have to smile at everyone you meet (although you can smile if you want).

The main thing is to feel in your soul, in your heart, the soft light and warmth that spread from your heart in the form of streams of energy.

You will notice that there will be much fewer aggressive, hostile or unfriendly people on your way. You will meet people who are similarly minded, carrying love and light in their hearts, although perhaps doing so unconsciously.

And even if you encounter manifestations of aggression and ill will, immediately remind yourself: “This is an illusion, this is a game, this is not real, but in reality there is only light and love.” Over time, you will notice that your very presence already helps restore peace, pacify the most aggressive and malicious people, and for this you do not have to do or say anything, it is enough to be present, maintaining light and love in your soul and not succumbing to the vibrations of anger and aggression.

With this attitude, you will not have to be afraid of anything, because low vibrations will no longer touch you, other people’s emotions will not hurt you, you will remain in a protective cocoon of light and love, maintaining contact with your Divine Self, everywhere and always.

Summary. 

Loneliness is an illusion. In reality, we are never alone. To stop feeling lonely and establish normal relationships, you need to:

– establish a connection with your heavenly, angelic family,
– establish an invisible connection with all people – members of your earthly Divine family,
– get rid of the feeling of abandonment, rejection,
– free yourself from outdated vows of loneliness given to God in past incarnations,
– learn to communicate with an open heart, bringing light and love to others.

(translation from book “Kryon. Create a space of happiness and success around you! 10 Most Important Lessons)

With Love, Liberty

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