Harmony of Personal Relationships | Liberty

Lesson 8.
Harmony of personal relationships. 

Happy Finding Soul Mates and Twin Flames.

If you don’t have love inside, it’s nowhere to be found.

Each of us can find loved ones and create the most perfect relationships with them. There is no one who is initially doomed to suffering and loneliness. God cannot give us an unhappy fate. God has prepared a happy destiny for everyone. But whether to follow it or not depends only on ourselves. Many people deviate from the happy plan that was prepared for them. They do this, of course, unconsciously. They simply don’t know how to live differently. They don’t know that they could actually be happy.

The main thing you need for this is to make your choice in favor of love. This is a fundamental, primary condition.

No matter what happens, in any situation, always and everywhere choose love and light!

Be on the side of love and light, and never, under any circumstances, go over to the side of hatred and enmity. Maintain love even if someone’s hostility is directed at you, even if you are provoked into anger and rejection. Don’t give in to provocations. Keep the source of love within you pure. Only then will love be present in your life.

Don’t look for love outside – if it’s not inside you, then it’s not anywhere!

But if there is love within you, if you intend to hold it in spite of everything, if you mobilize your spiritual strength so as not to let anyone extinguish your inner light, there will be love in your life. With your inner light, you are able to illuminate the space around you and create your own world, where it will be good, warm and cozy not only for you, but also for many other people. And these people will definitely come to the light of your love.

Yes, it is not always easy to keep love in your heart. Most often this is a very difficult task. But it is no coincidence that Kryon calls us warriors – warriors of light. A warrior is not one who gives up, he is one who is able to defend his values despite the circumstances, he is one who brings his truths and his light, even if there is lies and darkness all around.

Remember: you are a warrior of light!

Many will try to extinguish your light, circumstances will sometimes confuse you, force you to retreat from your Divinity. Sometimes you will feel that your pursuit of the path of the Spirit is separating you from your loved ones. But this is not true – the one who really loves you will stay with you. Only random people will leave, those who should not be there, who are not ready to accept you for who you are. Take courage – let go of those who want to leave, and become a source of light for those who have not yet appeared in your life, but are about to appear, attracted by the light of your love.

Find these special vibrations in yourself – the energies of love, which become a magnet for attracting those who love and are loved. These are very gentle vibrations, similar to the delicate aroma of a flower, a warm summer breeze, or caressing sea waves. They are in your heart, and if you find them, if you begin to radiate them, those around you will instantly feel it, and people of similar vibrations will begin to be attracted to you.

Exercise 1
Become a magnet that attracts love

Find an opportunity to be alone with yourself at least for a short time in a calm environment, where you feel safe and no one will disturb you (it is advisable to do this daily) and remind yourself that the Universe is a loving entity – loving unconditionally, that is, without setting any conditions for this love.

You are part of the Universe, therefore, you are like a child who is in a loving and loving home. This house is absolutely protected; it has no enemies who can cause harm. Here you can literally swim in the waves of love and not be afraid of anything.

In such an atmosphere of relaxation and calm, imagining yourself in the soft and warm waves of the energy of the Universe, imagine that a beautiful flower is blooming in your chest. Let it be a lotus, or a rose, or any other flower that you like. Imagine how petal after petal opens – they open towards the world, because the flower is absolutely sure that the world will greet it with love. The flower shows its unfolding beauty to the world with joy and pleasure and is not afraid of anything.

Become such a flower at least for a while! Breathe deeply and feel the joy of liberation from fears and tension, from mistrust and closedness. Experience the delight of revelation, the flowering of beauty, the manifestation of yourself to the world.

Your soul is a beautiful flower that longs to bloom and open. Allow yourself this in meditation – and you will feel changes both in yourself and in your life.

Give yourself and your loved ones the right to be who you are

Carrying love in your soul, Divine, unconditional love, means accepting yourself and others as they are. That is, firstly, do not try to play any roles, do not try to become not yourself, but someone else (for example, to please your loved ones who don’t like something about you), and secondly, do not try to remake other people, do not impose on them your ideas about what they should be.

In human relationships, conditional love often prevails, and this invariably leads to dissatisfaction with oneself and others. If we are not loved just like that, for what we are, without any conditions, this always creates an uncomfortable, and even traumatic situation. If we respond in kind, this inevitably leads to conflict, or even rupture.

Think about it: are you expecting something from your loved ones that they cannot give you? Are you trying to remake them? Are you demanding that they stop being the way they are? Understand that people, even those close to you, are not obligated to meet your expectations.

Everyone has the right to be who they are. Unconditional love is impossible without accepting this right!

Every time you feel some kind of discomfort in a relationship with a loved one, when disagreements or misunderstandings arise between you, and this makes you dissatisfied, or upset, or feel depressed, ask yourself: “What expectations of mine are not met? What do I want from this person and am not getting it?

Consider your expectation system. And then just abandon this system. Look at this person through the eyes of the Spirit and say: “He is different, how interesting and, in essence, wonderful that he is not like me, and that he does not meet my expectations!”

When you free other people from the obligation to meet your expectations, an important thing will happen: you free yourself from the obligation to meet their expectations.

You give freedom to another – and you too will become free!

If at the same time you maintain love for each other, unconditional, Divine love, you will have a chance to create the most perfect relationship.

This may be an unusual state for you; it will take time to give up old habits of making claims to each other. This may be related to the tests that your love will undergo. But if this is true love, it will withstand all the tests, and then you will receive a reward: there will be more intimacy, trust, sympathy, and understanding between you than before. This will happen because you have given each other more freedom, which means you have begun to show more respect for each other, for the Divinity, originality, and dignity of each of you.

Don’t be discouraged, even if it seems too difficult. Let’s not forget that we are powerful, Kryon constantly reminds us of this. This means that we can create the most perfect relationships for ourselves if we only want to.

Everything material is first created at the level of thought, feeling, intention, that is, on subtle planes, on energy-informational levels. The same goes for relationships. If you want to improve your relationships with your loved ones, if you want a new, perfect relationship to come into your life, start creating it first in your imagination, using visualization, and then use intention to bring this “project” to life.

Exercise 2
Visualization: Your Perfect Relationship

Close your eyes, take a comfortable, relaxed position, drive away extraneous thoughts, and begin to imagine your perfect image. This image should correspond to how you would like to be, how you would like to see yourself. How would you like to feel? How would you like to look? How would you like to behave in order to always be satisfied with yourself and your behavior?

Imagine all this coming true. Mentally create an image of yourself, endowed with all those perfect qualities that you dream of. Imagine seeing this image in front of you. This is your energy-informational double, embodying all the best qualities and reflecting your best health and sense of self.

It’s okay if the first time you don’t get this image to be clear, bright and complete enough. Gradually you will develop it and supplement it. The main thing is to feel the ideal sense of well-being that you dream of, the sense of self-acceptance, joy and satisfaction that you are who you like to be.

Continuing to imagine an ideal image of yourself, say mentally: “I express my firm intention to connect with my ideal energy-informational double. Ideal energy-informational double, I ask you to connect with my physical body and become one with me.” Then imagine how the image you created is combined with your physical body and connects with you on a cellular level.

Now your task is to create an image of the perfect relationship that you would dream of creating with your loved ones. Imagine how you, in your perfect image, create such a relationship. What kind of relationship is this? How would you like to see your behavior and the behavior of your loved ones in these relationships? Remember that an ideal relationship is one based on unconditional love and nothing else. Imagine how you communicate with each other on the basis of Divine love, mutual respect, understanding, sympathy, warmth. Imagine how this makes you feel.

It doesn’t matter if your relationship isn’t like that in reality. Imagine that they are already like that. Create a tangible energy-informational image of such a new, perfect relationship.

State your intention: “I bring into reality the image of a perfect relationship with … (name) created by me.”

Turn to God, Spirit, your Divine Self, asking for help in this work and in realizing your intentions. Express your gratitude for this help.

Create a harmonious atmosphere in which your relationship can develop

What is vital for a harmonious relationship is an atmosphere of peace, warmth, care, tranquility. Unfortunately, for most people, love for loved ones is inseparable from concern for them. But it is precisely the habit of worrying and worrying about loved ones that deprives us of the ability for unconditional love. Because worry and anxiety create dissonant energies that are incompatible with unconditional love.

Not worrying does not mean not caring.

Kryon says that care and worry are completely different things. Sincere love, warmth and care with which we surround our loved ones create true intimacy and harmony between us. But worry and anxiety not only do not bring people together, but separate people, as they give rise to many demands, claims, prohibitions and restrictions imposed on each other.

If you are worried, it means you do not trust God. Trusting God means being calm and peaceful, no matter what happens around you. Oh, you will say: “This is so unhuman – we cannot be calm when the world around us is turbulent, when our loved ones may be in danger.” And I will tell you: oh yes, this is certainly human, and this is more than human: it is Divine-human.

We advises us to remember five important things:

– In fact, nothing threatens us or our loved ones. We are all eternal, immortal beings of Divine nature.

“Each of us chose our destiny before our incarnation. And this choice is for the better, because everything that happens is aimed at the highest good of each of us and all humanity. This is not always clear to us; sometimes it seems to us that something bad is happening. But the Spirit never allows for accidents; there are no “unfortunate coincidences.” Everything is provided by the Spirit, and everything has its own highest meaning.

– If we chose our destiny even before incarnation, this does not mean that it is predetermined. By changing ourselves, we change our destiny. We constantly choose our future with our thoughts, feelings, intentions in the present. If we ourselves do not choose something bad, it will not happen. If something unfavorable was initially assumed in our destiny, we can change it by choosing something better. Nothing can happen to you or your loved ones except what you and they have chosen for themselves!

– Your loved ones, like you, have their own angelic helpers and mentors. They are called upon to help and protect them. Learn to trust the angels, turn to them for help and protection, and you will be sure that you have nothing to fear.

– With your worry and anxiety you will not help your loved ones, but you can do harm. After all, if you are worried, then you are, as it were, “planning” possible troubles for them. Tell yourself that you are not planning any disasters or troubles, which means they will not happen.

Instead of worry and anxiety, you can create a calm, peaceful atmosphere for yourself and loved ones – a warm aura in which everyone will feel good and comfortable. This will have a beneficial effect on your relationships; warmth and love will appear in them, which, perhaps, were lacking before.

Exercise 3.
Create an atmosphere of peace, tranquility and protection for yourself and your loved ones

Stay alone with yourself, take any comfortable position, close your eyes. Imagine that a golden angel with snow-white wings is standing behind you. He is similar to you, but only larger and taller than your human body. This is you in your Divine manifestation. You feel the warmth and love he sends your way. You feel protected, good and comfortable.

Imagine that there are other angels next to you – this is your Divine family. You and them are surrounded by a white-golden glow. You are in a space of protection, safety, warmth and love.

Tell yourself: “Everything is fine. Everything is going as it should. Everything goes according to plan. Divine protection is with me. Angelic protection is with me. I am led and directed. Everything’s under control. Everything is fine”.

Then imagine one of your loved ones whom you would like to protect, and imagine that you see him along with the angels in a halo of white and gold radiance. Say, now meaning him: “Everything is fine. Everything is going as it should. Everything goes according to plan. Divine protection is with you. You are led and guided by your angels. Everything’s under control. Everything is fine”.

You can imagine yourself in this protective halo along with your entire family, and together with your angelic family. You can choose other words – those that you think are better suited in your case.

This exercise is useful to perform daily, for example, before bed, but it can be done at any other time.

Your soul mates are nearby

There is probably no person who would not dream of meeting a soul mate. And in our time this is real for everyone, more than ever before. For the reason that the entire Universe, and humanity too, is moving along the path of reunification.

The time has ended when we moved away from God and from each other as parts of God. The time has come to return, and along the way to meet those with whom we were separated many incarnations ago, and whom we no longer remember. But the soul remembers, and always unmistakably recognizes those who are especially close and dear to it.

The fact is that, according to Kryon, a “soul mate” is not just a beautiful image, as people commonly believe. This is a very specific phenomenon. Moving away from God, from humanity as a single Divine whole, people – sparks of God – separated not individually, but in groups of closely related souls.

Initially, all people were closely related, but in the process of separation, the connections were destroyed, but especially close souls still remained close. They always incarnated at the same time, and had every chance of meeting in material reality. But this did not always happen, because recently the division has reached its peak, and even closely related souls have been separated.

And now, when humanity’s path back to God has begun, the first people you can meet will be those very closely related souls from your single group with whom you walked together from incarnation to incarnation.

What happens when two soul mates meet? You see a person who is completely understandable to you in everything, although you cannot always convincingly explain this in words. You understand his feelings and thoughts. You understand its deep essence. It is clear to you without words what is going on in his soul. You understand what he is like – even if he tries to pretend, to play some role – the mask will not deceive you. In his presence, you feel natural, do not experience any tension – almost as if you are alone with yourself. It’s easy for you to be yourself with him. You can say nothing, be silent together for a long time, and still understand each other.

Meeting a soul mate is always an important event in life. But for it to happen, you need to learn to appreciate and accept yourself as you are!

A soulmate is someone who is similar to you. But if you don’t love yourself, how can you love him? If you have unconditional love and unconditional acceptance of yourself in your heart, then you can count on communication with your soul mate to give you the fullest feeling of mutual understanding, intimacy, and joy from relationships.

A soul mate can come to you both as a friend and as a partner of the opposite s*x. This does not mean that you will necessarily link your destinies for the rest of your life. Not at all, relationships can develop differently, it depends on you. But in any case, the presence of a closely related soul in the world will bring special warmth to your life. It is sometimes lacking in the modern world, but everyone needs it so much.

If you are ready to meet, a soul mate will definitely appear. And if you want to speed up her appearance in your life, then remember the power of intention and express the desire to call her to you.

Exercise 4.
A Call to Kindred Souls

Find an opportunity for solitude, take any comfortable free position, close your eyes, breathe evenly and measuredly to relax, calm down and drive away obsessive thoughts.

Focus on the heart area, connect with your Divine Center, and take several deep breaths, imagining that you are inhaling and exhaling through the center of your chest.

Imagine that you are in the center of a huge sphere glowing with a white radiant light. Mentally or out loud say: “I speak now to my kindred souls – to those who came from the same source with me. I invite kindred spirits to manifest themselves in the space of my life.”

Imagine how the figures of people slowly appear around you inside a shining sphere, as if emerging from a luminous haze. There may be about a dozen or more than a hundred. All faces are turned to you, all eyes look at you warmly. These are people of different genders, ages, they are not like you, but in each you can see a piece of yourself – something that subtly connects you, so that you immediately understand: this is one family.

Mentally or silently say: “I call on the Divine light to remove all obstacles, everything that prevents our meeting in the material world. I ask the Divine light to eliminate all the negative things that happened between us in the past and restore harmony if it was lost.”

Imagine how a bright flash of blinding white light appears before your eyes, like an explosion of flame, it illuminates the entire sphere within which you are located, and you see how brightly all the faces facing you are illuminated. Then the previous illumination is restored, and now you see faces much closer and more clearly, and you see friendly and joyful smiles on all faces.

Mentally say: “We are all one. We are inextricably linked. I invite my soul mates to manifest into my life on the material plane. Let it be so”.

Then take a few more deep breaths, focus on the heart area, feel your body and open your eyes.

You can repeat this visualization as often as you like. After some time, kindred spirits will begin to appear in your real life.

Twin Flames: The Most Powerful Encounters of Your Life

Even in a group of closely related souls, there are those who are closer to you than others. These are practically complete copies of you (not externally, but in terms of their internal, spiritual, energetic characteristics). This closest soul is usually called a twin flame.

Meetings with twin flames are less common than with soul mates. But if such a meeting happens, it can become the brightest event in life.

The result of the meeting is this: two identical energy vibrations fall in unison with each other, merge and form a resonance, due to which they are literally thrown to a new spiritual level. This is a colossal takeoff that allows you to feel the happiness of freedom and flight, the vastness of your own possibilities, not to mention the happiness of experiencing all this together with your second self.

Subjectively, when meeting your twin flame, you may feel as if you were thrown into outer space. You can very clearly feel that you and this person are one. There may be a feeling of merging and dissolving into each other, which may even be accompanied by fear, but even if there is fear, it is overshadowed by a feeling of indescribable delight from gaining integrity and fullness of being.

There is an idea that the meeting of twin flames is necessarily a meeting between a man and a woman, between whom a v*****t passion inevitably flares up. Indeed, this very often happens, but still it is not necessary. These can be very close friendships, or relationships between brothers and sisters, although not b***d ones. Many people know that relationships with those with whom we are not related by b***d ties can be closer and more related than with b***d relatives. This happens precisely when meeting soul mates and twin flames.

But no matter how your relationship develops, the main meaning of the meeting of twin flames is that it is a Divine act of restoring lost integrity, harmony, and unity. And another thing is that such a meeting provides an opportunity to awaken and realize hidden spiritual potential. Such a meeting always transforms us qualitatively. It can instantly lift us to God if we are ready for it.

Kryon advises to be grateful to everything that happens as a result of such a meeting, and not to expect anything from each other, and especially not to consider that you owe each other anything. From the point of view of the Spirit, it is not so important what happens between you as people. The main thing is for the meeting to take place, for the energies to connect and elevate you to a new level of Divinity.

A meeting with your twin flame will only happen if you are ready for it, and if you need this meeting.

If you feel that you really need her, you can express your intention and invite your twin flame into your life.

Exercise 5
Invocation of the Twin Flame

Find an opportunity to retire, take a comfortable, relaxed position, breathe deeply and freely to calm down and drive away extraneous thoughts. Close your eyes. Focus on the heart area, connecting with your Divine center. Take several deep breaths in and out, imagining that you are breathing through the center of your chest.

Imagine that you are in the center of a luminous sphere. Mentally or out loud say, “I invite my twin flame to manifest in the space of my life.”

Imagine how a human figure appears right in front of you, as if slowly emerging from a luminous haze. You see a stunning resemblance to yourself – like looking in a mirror and seeing your reflection. You see your own face, your eyes, which look at you warmly and kindly. You feel that you are looking exactly the same – also being a kind of mirror image of the one you see opposite you. Noticing the similarities, you at the same time understand that this is not exactly you, but rather another part of you, not yet manifested, unknown to you, not encountered by you.

Say out loud or to yourself: “I ask the Divine light to dissolve the barriers between us, to remove all the negative things that came between us in past incarnations, to eliminate everything that interferes with our meeting in this incarnation.”

Imagine how a bright flash appears before your eyes and, like an explosion of flame, brightly illuminates the entire sphere within which you are located. The previous illumination is restored – and you see that your reflection has become clearer, brighter, and looks at you with a smile. You smile back too.

Say out loud or to yourself: “My twin flame, I ask you to manifest in the form that you have in this incarnation, in the same space-time with me.” After this, calmly, without tension, look at the figure in front of you, and you may notice changes: now this image is no longer so similar to you, you can see whether it is a man or a woman, what is his age, appearance, and other distinctive features.

Maybe you will recognize someone you know in this appearance and realize that your meeting has already taken place. Maybe it will be a complete stranger, which means you should expect to meet him in the near future. If a clear image does not appear, remember the sensations that you had during this imaginary meeting – they will not deceive you, and by these sensations you will immediately recognize your twin flame when the meeting occurs in reality.

Then say out loud or silently: “My twin flame, I call you to manifest in my earthly life on the material plane. Let it be so!”

Focus on the heart area, again imagine a bright flash in front of your eyes. Take a few deep breaths, feel your body and open your eyes.

You can repeat this visualization as often as you like, and soon your twin flame will manifest in your real life.

Summary

To establish harmonious personal relationships and find loved ones, you need:

– make a choice in favor of love, always hold it in your heart, become a magnet that attracts others with the subtle vibration of love,
– accept yourself and your loved ones as they are, free them from the need to meet your expectations, and yourself from the need to meet their expectations,
– create a harmonious atmosphere for yourself and your loved ones – free from anxiety, fear, worry,
– set yourself up for a happy meeting with kindred spirits,
– if you wish, bring a twin flame into your life.

(translation from book Artur Liman “Kryon. Create a space of happiness and success around you! 10 Most Important Lessons)

With Love, Liberty

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