Relationships Where Everyone Wins | Liberty

Lesson 9.
Relationships where everyone wins.

Only the one who chooses the good for everyone wins.

Humanity is now moving along the path of reunification, not along the path of division. We all return to our Source, to God, to unity in Divinity. This process is long and difficult, it does not go smoothly, because the carriers of old energies resist, those who cannot imagine life outside of struggle and hostility. But still, the process is growing, and its general vector cannot be changed; no one is able to do this.

Accordingly, both the laws of society and the trends prevailing in it change. In the era of separation from God, people were divided into those who were higher and who were lower, who were “worse” and who were “better”, people fought for power, for supremacy, for dominance, people tried to achieve success and victories at the expense of other people’s defeats, and for many millennia this was perceived as the norm; people simply did not know how to live differently.

But now everything has changed. Now that the Universe promotes unity rather than division, it has become impossible to gain victories at the expense of others’ defeat.

Now struggle and rivalry will no longer bear the same fruit. Now only the path of cooperation can bring success!

This means that it is more beneficial for all of us to move from struggle and competition to cooperation – simply because the objective laws of the world in which we live dictate so. Anyone who breaks these laws is doomed to defeat.

For a long time, almost every area of your life was based on competition. Only the desire to get ahead of others, to win, to become the best moved you along the path of achievements in the profession, business, art, education, and anything else. Entire countries built their development strategies with the goal of surpassing other countries perceived as competitors. You fought with each other – you fought for many millennia, and thanks to this you developed. And now I want to tell you: it doesn’t work anymore.

For God there are no firsts and no lasts, we are all equal, no one is better or worse, no one is lower or higher, no one is less worthy and less loved than everyone else!

Therefore, God will not support someone who considers himself better or superior to others, who wants exaltation by humiliating others, who wants to receive some benefits by taking them away from others. This means that a person who wants success must establish equal cooperation with others, mutually respectful personal and business relationships so that all participants always benefit.

Anyone who tries to achieve victory through negative actions towards others will very quickly receive the negative consequences of these actions. Wanting to win, he will lose. If we want to avoid this, then, when planning our actions, we must take care in advance that they will benefit not only us, but all people on the planet. Out of habit, this may seem impossible. But in fact, this is not only possible – it is the only effective path to success.

The energies of the planet are now such that we win if everyone benefits from our actions, and we lose if others lose from our actions.

The motto of the new world: “Victory for all”!

Even if it is difficult for us to believe in the reality of such a victory, the energies of new times are still leading us precisely to this, and very soon we will be convinced: yes, this is real, moreover, it is precisely this kind of victory that is real, and other “victories” achieved during the account of someone’s defeat is not a victory at all.

Exercise 1
Set your consciousness to choose the good for everyone.

Think about whether you follow the principle of unconditional love towards yourself. Do you treat yourself well enough, do you care about your own well-being? After all, only those who care about their own good (the highest good – as God understands it, and not about their momentary whims) are able to care about the good of others.

Return to your Divine center, enter the “I Am” state, restore the energies of unconditional love in yourself. Say out loud or silently: “Dear Spirit, I choose the path of cooperation. Dear God, I renounce all rivalry, enmity and competition. I choose the good for myself – and I choose the good for others. I choose cooperation with God in order to come to cooperation with people, built according to Divine laws. Let it be so”.

Then think about those with whom you competed, whom you wanted to defeat. Imagine them in front of you – each individually and all together – and say: “I choose the good for myself. I choose good for you. I choose the good for everyone. Let it be so”.

Tune in to the wave of collaborative energy.

Old energies are leaving the Earth, which means that those who are still determined to fight and compete no longer receive support. Previously they had support, now they don’t, and they don’t understand what’s going on, they’re confused and demoralized. Because of this confusion, they sometimes begin to wave their fists even more than before, and the result gets worse and worse, the ground disappears from under their feet.

If we want to continue to stand firmly on our feet, if we want to live prosperously, happily, if we want success in everything and good relationships, we must not only rebuild our consciousness, but also tune in to new energetic vibrations.

Of course, these are interconnected processes: by rebuilding consciousness, letting in the truths of new times, we also change energy. But consciousness sometimes resists new truths. The mind can give us, for example, the following ideas: “You cannot give up the fight, otherwise you will be defeated, because if you do not fight, you are doomed to defeat.” It is really difficult for the mind to understand how this can be overcome without a fight. But in the energies of new times this is the only possible path.

Strength and aggression can no longer win – only love wins. Love becomes a huge active force, a victorious force, and besides it there are no victorious forces in our world.

There will no longer be victory for some at the expense of others. No longer will anyone who gives up the fight have to be left behind and surrendered. Giving up the fight will no longer mean being defeated!

You don’t give up the fight because you accept defeat. You give up the fight because you choose victory for everyone. Choose cooperation over competition.

Take this challenge. The challenge that a wonderful new time throws at you, the time of your entry into the Divine family.

Energy is actually material. Its vibrations can be felt, you can tune in to it, you can accept it into your life as an active instrument. The energy of cooperation is now arriving on the planet, it is becoming more and more numerous, it is gradually occupying a dominant position. If we tune in to the wave of this energy, we will thereby help our consciousness to quickly accept new truths.

Exercise 2
Tuning into the energy of cooperation.

Find an opportunity for solitude, sit in any comfortable position, breathe deeply and measuredly to calm down, relax and free yourself from extraneous thoughts. Close your eyes, focus your attention on the heart area, connect with your Divine center.

Say out loud or silently, “Creator, show me what collaborative energy feels like so I don’t confuse it with anything else.” Listen to yourself and you will feel something like a soft, warm flow of energy, accompanied by unconditional love and wishes for the good of yourself and others. Moreover, you will notice that this is not a passive feeling – it carries within itself the energy of intention and action dictated by concern for the common good.

Then remember a situation in your life where you struggled and lost. Bring before your eyes an image of this situation (where, how, what happened). See yourself in this situation as if from the outside. Remember the feelings you had then, what you did, how you behaved, and what your feelings and state were like after the defeat.

Mentally envelop the image of this situation and yourself in it with the energies of cooperation that you just felt. Imagine how the picture changes in them.

Now it is a calm, peaceful image – you see yourself resolving the situation without fighting, bringing it to peace, or simply walking away from it. Notice how your feelings have changed to softer, warmer, kinder feelings towards yourself and others.

Take a few more deep breaths, feel your body and open your eyes.

Think about whether you can resolve the situations of struggle and competition in your life, using the energy of cooperation, so that they ultimately lead to the common good.

Make unconditional love your guide to success.

A false understanding of the very concept of success, the very concept of victory, can hinder us from setting ourselves up for the benefit of all. Sometimes we are so focused on achieving what we want that we become unscrupulous in our means. And we are not stopped even by the fact that on the way to this desired we make both ourselves and others unhappy. As a result, when we get what we want, we are no longer happy – the end does not justify the means.

So is this a success, is this a victory? Hardly.

Therefore, when setting goals, it is very important to look ahead – to foresee the long-term consequences that our attempts to get what we want will lead to. If a goal even seems very attractive, but you feel that the very first attempts to achieve it lead you into some kind of negative state or create negative results, then this is not the goal that you really need.

To find the goal that is needed, which will really benefit both you and all people, you need to learn simple truths:

– what seems like success is not always success in reality,
– sometimes what seems like a victory is actually a defeat,
– sometimes what seems like a defeat is actually a victory.

If you are accustomed to being guided only by external signs, then it will indeed be difficult for you to distinguish a true victory from a false one. Look deeper – at the inner, spiritual essence of the event. This is the only way to understand where is victory and where is defeat, where is real success, which promises good for everyone, and where is only the appearance of it.

My dears, in your earthly world many things often appear in a distorted form. In fact, what you are accustomed to consider a victory is not always a victory for the Spirit. Victory for the Spirit is the ability to maintain light and love in any situation, in relation to oneself, in relation to others. But to you, as people, victory sometimes seems to be the manifestation of aggression and superiority in brute force. And for the Spirit, victory is superiority in love. Remember this, and know: when you showed brute force, when you got angry, you lost, even if from your human point of view it has the appearance of victory.

When setting your goals and planning ways to achieve them, come from a place of love!

Ask yourself these specific questions: “Is this task dictated by love, unconditional love for yourself and others? Will completing this task bring love and light to both myself and others? Will every step towards your goal be accompanied by love?

The essence of your Divine Self, the essence of your Spirit is the energy of light and love of God. Therefore, everything that the Spirit has planned for you is dictated by love and light and carries only love and light for everyone. Spirit cannot plan goals for you that require you to be exposed to negative energies along the way, and the achievement of which will bring anything other than love – to you or to other people.

In this sense, the energy of unconditional love is the best guide on the path to any goal. Only this guideline will not let you down, and will lead you to true success, to true victory – one that will benefit both you and all people.

Exercise 3.
When setting goals, proceed from the need to maintain unconditional love.

Close your eyes, direct your attention inward, mentally connect with your Divine center. Imagine that there is an angel standing behind you, looking at you with eyes full of love. Feel the flow of love that envelops you. Then mentally connect with the angel and look at yourself through his loving eyes. Then again feel this love pouring out to you – the person.

Then imagine that you, a human, and you, an angel, merge into one. You become one, undivided being, living in the space of love. Love is both inside you and around you, it is everywhere, it is part of you, and you are part of it.

While remaining in this space of love, begin to mentally go through the goals that you want to achieve and the desires that you dream of fulfilling. Notice if you manage to stay in this state of love when you think about a particular goal. If these thoughts knock you out of the state of love, give rise to anxiety, fear, anxiety, despondency or other dissonant emotions, then this goal is unlikely to be needed by your Spirit.

If you feel how the state of love inspires you at the thought of this or that goal, how it seems to lift you above the Earth, and you experience joyful inspiration, it means that the Spirit gives you all the strength and opportunity to achieve this goal.

Start moving towards your goal from this state of unconditional love – and it will become your real driving force on the path to success!

Stop judging yourself and others.

The real reason for the energy of cooperation may be the habit of people judging each other. Where the energy of condemnation dominates, the energy of cooperation is simply blocked. Because the energy of cooperation is based on the unconditional love and light of God. And when we judge ourselves or others, we go against these Divine energies. We fall out of their channel and even try to resist this channel, to act contrary to it. But this is impossible – after all, in the energies of new times, Divine love and light already have such power on Earth that no one can resist them for a long time.

Therefore, by judging ourselves and others, we harm ourselves!

We deprive ourselves of strength, because to fight the flow of love and light of the Universe means inevitably to de-energize ourselves, to come to a state of energy exhaustion, when we can no longer dream of success, prosperity, or happiness. And, of course, by judging ourselves and others, we block all possibilities for harmonious relationships.

The habit of condemning has been formed in us over many millennia, and is literally written into our genetic code. Therefore, condemnation seems almost the norm to us, and we sometimes condemn ourselves and others unconsciously, simply because this is the most common automatic reaction for us. But now, when a new era has arrived on Earth, condemnation has become more than inappropriate. God does not condemn people – but we are like God! This means that by condemning, we retreat from ourselves, from our Divine qualities.

Despite the fact that the habit of judgment has become very ingrained in our consciousness and subconscious, it is possible and necessary to get rid of it. To do this, you must first of all approach this problem consciously – begin to notice how you, voluntarily or unwittingly, judge yourself and others. Then you need to consciously approach the error of such behavior.

How can you judge another person if you simply cannot know him well enough – as God knows him, as perhaps he knows himself? You don’t know the motives of his actions, you don’t know what led him to such behavior, you don’t know what he really is, you can only judge by external signs, which are often deceptive. So how can you judge him without knowing the full picture?

And if you judge yourself, it means that you do not know and understand yourself the way God knows and understands you.

Remember that God does not judge you – and stop judging yourself too!

Understanding your mistakes and doing everything to prevent them from happening again is what really needs to be done, but this has nothing to do with self-judgment, self-criticism, or self-punishment.

When you notice that you are again judging someone, or yourself, try to immediately neutralize and transform the energy of condemnation. By doing this, you will instantly remove the barrier to cooperation and harmonious relationships.

Exercise 4
Transform the energy of judgment.

Be alone with yourself. If you want, close your eyes. Direct your attention inward. Imagine that you find yourself not just in your inner space, but in another dimension, in an area where you meet the Divine part of yourself. Connect with your Divine Center. Then set the intention to find and transform the dissonant energies affecting you.

Think about whether there were someone’s judgments against you that left you with unpleasant feelings and emotions. Also remember if you have ever judged someone. Or maybe you judged yourself, and that now also makes you feel uncomfortable?

Determine in which area of your body (rather, your inner space) this discomfort is located. Send there a flow of light and love from your Divine center. At the same time, thank those people with whom these dissonant energies are connected for the lesson.

Give up arguing, learn to understand and accept other points of view.

Harmonious cooperation – cooperation that is equal and mutually respectful – excludes all kinds of conflicts, disputes, quarrels and other confrontations. This does not mean that all its participants always share the same opinion on everything. Even if you are like-minded people, this does not mean that you have to agree on everything. But harmonious cooperation is different in that everyone gets the right to their point of view, and at the same time, everyone respects the point of view of the other, no matter how different it may be from his own.

A harmonious person will never impose his opinion on another, will never consider that only he is right and others are wrong. All people are different, and everyone can have their own view of things and their own right. But this does not mean that we cannot communicate and are not able to find a common language. On the contrary, only if we respect the other’s point of view can we find mutual understanding.

If you want, you can learn to communicate with a variety of people, different from you, and even have opposite opinions, and still get along very well with everyone. To do this, you just need to have a developed sense of your Divine dignity and the feeling of “I Am.” Only those who do not feel themselves, as if they do not feel their presence in the world, will desperately assert themselves, proving to everyone and everyone that they are right, in order to somehow feel their existence, the reality and significance of themselves.

A person with a sense of Divine dignity does not need to assert himself, because he already feels confident and comfortable, knowing for sure that he rightfully takes his place in the world.

Therefore, he will calmly treat the opposite point of view, give the other person the right to be right, and he himself will remain right, without shouting about it to the whole world.

Kryon often asks us: can we remain calm when someone convinces us that we are wrong, or even scolds or criticizes us? If we can, this does not mean at all that we are indifferent and insensitive. This only means that we are rooted in our Divine Self, we are convinced that no criticism is capable of changing our essence, that our Divinity is invulnerable to criticism, that it is impossible to offend us, just as it is impossible to offend God, who remains loving even to the one who scolds and criticizes him.

Many of us have the habit, almost immediately, of rushing into an argument, defending ourselves, defending our rightness, demanding that the other agree with us… These are also automatic habits generated by the old energies of planet Earth, where people solved their problems mainly by fighting each other .

But now that those times have passed, we will achieve much greater success if we stop arguing, and instead try to understand and accept other people’s point of view, and, if possible, find common ground even with those with whom we disagree.

Exercise 5.
Learn to understand even those with whom you disagree.

Think about that person with whom you recently had an argument. Remember the content of the conversation, what exactly you said to each other, what emotions you experienced.

Take a few deep breaths and exhales, and imagine that you are freeing yourself from these emotions – you can mentally direct a stream of light at them, and imagine that they dissolve.

Direct your attention inside yourself, enter the “I Am” state, connect with your Divine Self, and from this state look as if from the outside at your conversation. You look with the eyes that God could look – that is, without judgment, without irritation and other negative emotions. Your view is objective, unbiased, and at the same time full of love and understanding.

Imagine that your interlocutor utters exactly the phrase that makes you want to object to him, argue, prove that he is wrong. Imagine that you are calmly listening to this phrase, and do not rush to answer, but instead pause. If you have the thought “He’s wrong!” – drive her away, and think about the fact that he himself feels right.

Try to look at the situation you are arguing about through his eyes. He sees her differently than you. What do you think it looks like from his point of view? What makes him think this way? Try to find him, and not your answers to these questions, giving up your own interpretation of this person’s behavior.

Note: understanding why another person thinks one way and not another does not mean giving up one’s own point of view. Understand that you and your point of view are not threatened – you can remain confident in your opinion, and at the same time be sincerely interested in the point of view of another person. Determine how his point of view differs from yours. Try to understand what caused these differences. You will be surprised at how different people are, everyone has different views and beliefs, and it is very interesting to get to know other points of view.

Tell yourself that you accept the right to exist of this point of view too. It is not necessary to agree with her.

The next time you meet this person again in reality, take a break in the same way and do not rush to argue. Listen to him carefully. Look at everything through his eyes. Say that you understand him – and try to tell how you understood his position, that he was right. After this, you can express your point of view, but without insisting that only you are right and he is wrong.

Then think about whether it is still possible to find some kind of compromise, or some kind of common ground, something on which your opinions converge. Even if you don’t find a common language, thank your interlocutor (not necessarily out loud, you can mentally) for the fact that thanks to him you became acquainted with a different view of the problem, which may have slightly expanded your ideas about the world.

Summary

To establish relationships in which everyone benefits, move from struggle and competition to equal, mutually respectful cooperation. For this:

– tune your consciousness to choosing the good for everyone,
– tune your energy to the wave of cooperation,
– when setting goals and striving for success, make unconditional love a guideline on your path – only under this condition will your success be a benefit for everyone,
– refuse to judge yourself and others,
– learn to accept other points of view and understand even those with whom you disagree.

(translation from book Artur Liman “Kryon. Create a space of happiness and success around you! 10 Most Important Lessons)

With Love, Liberty

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