Finding the Real you | Heavenletters

Finding the Real You: Moving Beyond the Veneer of Ego

In our daily lives, we often mistake our external image for our internal strength. We tend to build a “veneer”—a thin, polished layer of how we want the world to see us. However, as the spiritual message in The Dawning of You suggests, this veneer is fragile and easily chipped. When we feel a dip in our spirits or a sense of disappointment, it isn’t our true self that is suffering; rather, it is the ego beginning to peel away. Instead of fearing these moments, we can view them as a necessary process of shedding what is false to reveal the authentic heart underneath.

The message encourages us to actually celebrate those moments when our feelings get hurt or our self-image feels “shattered.” While it feels uncomfortable, this shattering is actually a breakthrough. We often hold onto imaginary pictures of who we think we should be, and when those pictures dissolve, we feel lost. But truth cannot be broken. Only the illusions we’ve created can fall apart. When the ego—which is described as a “fly-by-night” and “arrogant f**e”—is disassembled, we are finally able to see the core of our being, which is strong, steady, and inviolate.

A key part of this journey is redefining how we view humility and pride. Many people believe humility means feeling “low” and pride means feeling “high,” but both are simply different sides of the same ego-driven coin. True strength lies in neutrality—a state where the ego is absent. When we reach this state, we no longer ride the roller coaster of external praise or criticism. We learn that we don’t have “feathers to be ruffled” because our value isn’t based on the opinions of others. By shifting our focus away from the “littleness” of worldly judgment, we begin to recognize that we are “giants” walking among giants.

Ultimately, the choice lies in what we choose to respond to: the demands of the ego or the frequency of universal love. The ego seeks accolades and “pats on the back,” but these are temporary and hollow. True fulfillment comes from aligning ourselves with a higher perspective and accepting a strength that is already ours. When we set our sights high and look above the chaos of everyday drama, we realize that the only vision of us that truly matters is the one held by the Divine. By leaning into that love, we find a resilience that no worldly circumstance can ever take away.

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The Dawning of You | Heavenletters

Apr 26 2026

God said:

Sometimes you think your veneer is your strength, but veneer is only a thin coat and is easily chipped. And then you feel depressed. But veneer is not your strength, and it never was. Veneer is your peeling ego, and when your ego is peeled, you feel depressed.

Congratulate pangs of depression because they let you know that your ego has been chipped. You, the heart of you, cannot be depressed, because you, the heart of you, is inviolate. Only that thin skin of ego can feel depressed. Some picture that you made in your mind started to dissolve. Its dissolution is inevitable.

When you have thought an imaginary picture was your truth, and that picture breaks, you feel shattered. But the shattering is no more true than the picture you mistakenly held. Truth cannot shatter, and what is not true never was true. The shattering of illusion is a breakthrough.

Humility does not mean you feel disdain from outside you. Humility does not mean you feel low any more than pride means you feel high. Those are momentary feelings that flush out your ego. Only ego feels high or low.

Neutrality means absence of ego. The core of you is your strength, not the ego. Ego is a fly-by-night errant arrogant f**e. It is a dissembler, and like all dissembling, it doesn’t last. It gets disassembled. It falls apart, and for that you must be glad because you seek what is true, not to hold on to what is false.

Laugh at your ego. It is laughable.

When you get your feelings hurt, be delighted.

Be glad for learning. What you are learning is that you are not your shredded ego. You are much more than that. You are learning to come into your own, and not believe in what another may behold. What they behold is their vision. You do not have to make it yours. I suggest that you know that the only vision that counts is Mine.

Pay attention to what I see, and then what the world or certain members of it think of you or of Me will fall by the wayside. What others think will assume its rightful place. What matters is what I think of you. What matters is that you know what I think.

When you know Our shared strength, the energy of the universe is yours.

A giant pays no mind to littleness. He sees it for what it is and he knows that it cannot slow him or detract him from his step. And you walk with giants. And you are a giant.

You do not have feathers to be ruffled.

And if you did, what would it matter? When your attention is on My love, what does ruffling matter?

Avail yourself of My strength. It is for you. Accept My strength and not the opinion of others.

When something weighs heavily on you, you know it is not from Me. If it is not from Me, then it is from ego. Ego responds to ego. Truth responds to truth.

So the question today is: What do you respond to? Choose.

I suggest you respond to My love. You already know what love is not. It is not accolades from the world. It is not patting of your ego. Patting of ego is patting of ego. It is not love.

Set your sights high, My beloveds. Set your sights high. You stand above the maelstrom around you. Look up at Me and know what love is, and know it is for you.

Heavenletter #159 Published on: April 6, 2001

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