Daily Quote for August 1, 2025 | Abraham-Hicks

Beyond Right and Wrong: How Personal Resonance Shapes Your Reality Through the Law of Attraction

In a world that constantly demands we take sides, judge actions, and debate absolute truths, it is easy to get c****t in the exhausting cycle of proving what is “right” and what is “wrong.” We spend immense mental energy evaluating the choices of others, measuring their methods against our own, and seeking validation for our personal perspectives.

However, a profound excerpt from an Abraham-Hicks workshop in Los Angeles (channeled through Esther Hicks) offers a liberating alternative to this perpetual struggle:

“Everything is valid and everything is truthful, because Law of Attraction lets everything be. The question is not whether it’s right or wrong, whether their approach is right or wrong, or whether my approach is right or wrong. The question is: Does their approach feel good to me? And if it doesn’t, then I choose a different approach.”

This simple yet revolutionary concept invites us to step off the battleground of judgment and step into the clarity of personal alignment. By shifting our focus from universal correctness to individual resonance, we unlock a higher level of peace and self-empowerment.

The Co-Existence of Multiple Truths

To understand this perspective, we must first look at how energy operates under the Law of Attraction. At its core, this law dictates that whatever you give your thought, attention, and energy to will manifest in your experience. Because millions of people are focusing on vastly different ideas, values, and methods, countless different “truths” are created simultaneously.

When the teaching states that “everything is valid,” it does not mean every action is beneficial or harmonious for everyone. Rather, it means that every experience has a right to exist because someone, somewhere, held the focus required to bring it into reality. If a mindset exists, it is valid because the energy of attention called it forth.

When we realize that reality is inherently subjective, the need to enforce a single “correct” way of living disappears. Someone else’s lifestyle, career strategy, or spiritual path can be entirely true and effective for them, even if it completely contradicts yours.

Moving Away from the “Right vs. Wrong” Trap

Society conditions us to measure life through a rigid binary lens: correct or incorrect, good or bad, smart or foolish. While this framework helps maintain basic social order, applying it to your personal growth and spiritual journey often creates unnecessary suffering.

When you judge another person’s approach as “wrong,” you inadvertently tie your emotional state to their behavior. You end up focusing on what you dislike, which—according to the Law of Attraction—only brings more of that unwanted vibration into your own awareness.

The key to freedom is moving away from objective judgment and toward personal preference. Instead of asking:

“Why are they doing it that way?”
“Is their method correct?”
“Should I fix or correct them?”

The only question that truly matters for your own well-being is: “Does this approach feel good to me?”

Listening to Your Emotional Guidance System

Your emotions serve as an internal compass, offering instant feedback about your alignment with your true self. When an idea, practice, or perspective “feels good”—inducing feelings of relief, enthusiasm, clarity, or peace—it means that approach is in harmony with who you are and where you want to go.

Conversely, when an approach feels heavy, restrictive, or disharmonious, it is not a call to condemn the approach or the person practicing it. It is simply a signal from your internal guidance system saying, “This does not match your personal frequency.”

By viewing emotions as directional signals rather than moral judgments, life becomes remarkably straightforward. You no longer need to wage war against ideas that do not serve you; you simply tune your receiver to a different channel.

The Art of Allowing: Choosing a Different Path

The ultimate expression of self-empowerment is the ability to acknowledge another person’s path without feeling compelled to adopt it or destroy it. This is often referred to as the Art of Allowing.

When you encounter a perspective that clashes with your own, the most aligned response is not debate—it is gentle redirection. As the quote suggests, if an approach doesn’t feel good to you, “then I choose a different approach.”

Final Thoughts

The beauty of the Law of Attraction lies in its infinite space. There is room for every perspective, every methodology, and every dream. You do not need to win an argument or prove the superiority of your lifestyle to live happily.

By releasing the heavy burden of deciding who is right and who is wrong, you free up your energy to focus on what truly matters: aligning with what feels good, pursuing what brings you joy, and allowing the universe to blossom in all its diverse expressions.

[Reference]:

Everything is valid and everything is truthful, because Law of Attraction lets everything be. The question is not whether it’s right or wrong, whether their approach is right or wrong, or whether my approach is right or wrong. The question is: Does their approach feel good to me? And if it doesn’t, then I choose a different approach.

Excerpted from Los Angeles, CA on 8/2/98

Our Love,
Esther
(and Abraham and Jerry)