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How to Become a Different Version of Yourself and Make Your Dreams Come True.

If you are focused on what you do not want, then what you do want cannot grow.

As long as you remain in the energetic state of the problem, you will not be able to change anything or find a solution, because you attract only energies similar to the problem. This is pure physics.

As soon as you step out of the zone of vibrations of the problem and difficulties and relax, for example, while taking a walk, you may unexpectedly find a solution that you could not even have imagined before.

And this applies to everything — everything depends only on what you concentrate on, where your attention goes, and which side of the question or problem it feeds.

There is a certain price to pay for everything we give our attention to. These are the laws of the universe, and if we do not know them, do not understand them, or do not acknowledge them, they continue to work anyway, regardless of our attitude toward them.

The Sun shines, the Earth moves, day follows night, and so on — everything works as it was created by the Higher Intelligence.

How strongly are you focused on what is not in your best interest? How much time do you spend on it?

Start by simply noticing it.

Stage 1. Take Back Your Attention.

Controlling your attention also means changing your point of view and taking action.

Small steps, but they must be steps that lead you toward what you desire — only those that are beneficial to you.

For example, spend less time on social media, delete things that constantly attract your attention, and so on.

And on the other hand, make useful things more conscious — consciously waking up, having breakfast, going for a walk, taking a shower, dancing, listening to music, etc.

Everything that brings you joy and benefits you should necessarily be immersed in your attention.

Another thing that helps you learn to control your attention is being in silence, writing in a journal, consciously directing your attention to different parts of your body or to the environment around you: observing nature, observing sensations in your body while walking, and so on.

One day you realize that you control your attention, rather than your concentration leading you down paths that are useless or that you do not want to take.

It is important to avoid mistakes. For example, do not try to control what is beyond your control, but direct your attention to where you can actually change something.

Pulling your attention away from what is beyond your control and moving it toward where you can actually change something — changing the focus of attention — is the key that will open any door.

Practice

Formulate a question, topic, or area of your life that you want to change.

Write down everything that you cannot control.

Write down what is already within your control.

For example: relationships.

I cannot control other people’s thoughts and actions, but I can control how I accept and respond to them.

Focusing on what we can control restores our strength and opens up new possibilities.

Stage 2. Find the Power of “Why?” and “What For?”.

There are two types of motivation — push stimulation, when we move forward through willpower, and pull stimulation.

We need to stimulate the push, otherwise it is difficult to achieve anything. To keep moving forward.

But attraction works much more powerfully.

Management begins with the question: Why?

Why are you doing this? Why? Why? Why?

Ask yourself “why” questions and answer them very honestly. Do not allow your ego to control the process by creating artificial answers in order to feed destructive programs such as “good girl / good boy.”

The need and the role of being “good” are childhood traumas and the standards of the matrix.

No, this does not mean that you need to be “bad.” “Bad — good” is a division, a sign of dualistic thinking.

This is the lowest level of perception of reality imposed on us from the outside.

The most important thing is to be sincere with yourself.

Even when alone with yourself, it can sometimes be very difficult to be sincere and to be yourself, and a certain degree of courage and freedom is needed to acknowledge your dark side. But if you succeed, it can become a very great breakthrough in evolution.

The main thing you need to achieve when answering the questions “WHY am I doing this?” and “WHY do I want this?” is to understand WHO NEEDS THIS and for whom it is being done.

If you understand that your goal has been set for the sake of others — to fit in, to be liked, to prove something, and so on — you are clearly moving in the wrong direction.

Yes, the path may very well continue and develop successfully; you may even achieve success, but sooner or later you will find yourself back at the starting point and realize: this was not my path.

If you want to do this FOR YOURSELF — in order to grow, rejoice, create, enjoy, and experience other creative energies — the Universe will undoubtedly build a Path of synchronicity, unlimited possibilities, interesting experiences, joy and delight, with green traffic lights and only small obstacles to strengthen and temper your innate strength.

Or they may be places where it is worth slowing down and looking around.

There must be an emotional reason behind everything, otherwise it will not move you forward.

Where do you want to be in one year? In 3 years? In 5 years?

How do you want it to look?

Do not set limitations. Imagine that you have unlimited possibilities.

This will help you direct how you look and act today.

Stage 3. Make the Decision.

Then make the decision to achieve this goal.

This means that you cut off other options and “what ifs.”

You stand firmly on your feet and see, understand, and realize: this is your path.

“I do not know how, what, or when, but I have decided that this is my destination.”

Many people underestimate the power of making a decisive decision.

This kind of energy penetrates reality, which receives your permission and approval to lead you exactly there.

“I do not know how this will unfold, but I feel that this is my path. I know nothing, but I will get there and I exclude everything else.”

The path to the planned reality begins from this moment.

Make the decision, stop thinking about how it will happen, and simply continue moving forward along the path that will begin to unfold by itself.

You do not have to know the entire path. It is enough to know the direction and take the next step.

Stage 4. First Become — Then Act.

First you must become productive, and then you will be able to increase it and take possession of this power.

First become the version of yourself who can do it, and then begin to act.

That means internally fully becoming and identifying with the version of yourself who will reach that goal.

Draw on a sheet of paper, or find a photo of yourself that fits the meaning — the version of yourself who has achieved this goal and for whom it has become a normal and easy thing.

This is a parallel version of you that already exists.

You tune into her energies and simply identify with them.

Who is this version of you?

Habits, daily routine, criteria, qualities — describe her.

She may also do things that she does not do now. For example, eat a healthy breakfast or swim in a pool once a week.

This may not even be directly connected to the goal. This new version can take any form.

Think through your limitations and standards, how you interact with people and how you treat yourself.

This is your roadmap.

You must become a greater version of yourself. In your imagination, you must become a reflection of your ideal reality.

Stage 5. Bring the New You into the Old Reality.

Then we return to our familiar life.

And the first thing you need to do is accept the fact that our New You continues to live in the old reality for some time.

We continue to live in the old reality while holding on to the New You, and in this way we begin to retrain reality in how it can treat us.

Over time, changes begin — your habits, reactions, thoughts, relationships with others, and other people’s attitudes toward you, and so on.

If you do not consciously do this, you will automatically return to your previous reality and remain its reflection.

Our attachment to the same frequency makes us remain in the same conditions.

Our state creates our reality.

Constantly feeding a certain frequency keeps us in it for an indefinitely long time.

Thoughts about our own inadequacy and inability to do something different keep us going around in circles.

Reality does not define me until I decide that it does.

I will change my personality, energies, prejudices — and reality will have no other choice but to change, because this is the order of creation.

You rise above your circumstances and make a different decision despite the visible circumstances.

From this moment, change begins.

This is the only way to break this vicious circle.

Stage 6. Hold the New State.

How do you hold the new image?

Be at your highest level regardless of the situation.

Reality is reconstructed gradually; you need to give it time.

And besides, difficulties are also valuable material. They are indicators of where something needs to be improved.

Focus on yourself and do everything that is within your power.

Accept both periods of growth and periods of stagnation.

Do not expect easy paths, and accept what life shows you.

Life will also test you, set obstacles in your way, in order to help you become the version of yourself that you have planned.

Learn your lessons and move to the next level.

Difficulty does not always mean that you are going the wrong way. Sometimes it shows you where you need to become stronger, change your approach, slow down, or look around.

Stage 7. Change Automatic Reactions.

You also need to change your automatic reactions.

Pay attention to how you interact with the world.

The things that bring you into a negative state are very important, because your state is the foundation of the process.

When you react intensely, you are pulled into a spiral and your perception becomes very narrow.

You see neither the solution, nor the way out, nor the possibilities.

Notice how you react and create an alternative plan: how can you react differently?

How could this new, empowered version of yourself react?

Every time you choose a conscious response instead of an automatic reaction, you strengthen the new version of yourself.

A conscious response reveals not only the possibility of managing your life instead of allowing life to manage you, but also opens up creative abilities and opportunities.

You begin to create your own circumstances instead of becoming a victim of circumstances.

Stage 8. Love Yourself and the Process.

Growth is a mirror of self-development.

Who you desire to become gradually reveals itself through your path.

The value of this is that you yourself have walked this path.

Love yourself and this process, every side of it without exception.

Love not only the result, but also the path toward it. The periods of growth and the periods of stagnation, your strengths and those places where you still have room to grow.

Do not demand an instant transformation into the perfect version of yourself.

Every time you bring your attention back to where you can actually change something, when you choose a new response, act according to the new image of yourself, and do not return to your old programs, you are already becoming different.

Gradually, the new version stops being merely an image in your imagination.

It becomes you.

And then your inner state, attention, decisions, habits, and actions begin to correspond to the reality you have chosen.

This will help make the process unforgettable and highly effective.

This is an investment that always brings a “profit.”

P.S. Freedom begins the moment you stop searching outside for what already lives within.

Sincerely, Liberty
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