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Understanding Desirer’s Remorse: Why We Lose Touch with Our Goals
Most of us are familiar with the common concept of buyer’s remorse—that sinking feeling of regret after making a significant purchase. However, a much deeper psychological and energetic phenomenon occurs long before money ever changes hands. This experience, often referred to as desirer’s remorse, happens when an individual identifies a clear goal or aspiration but fails to maintain the mental and emotional alignment required to achieve it. Rather than signaling that the goal itself was a mistake, this feeling simply highlights a temporary disconnect between a person’s current mindset and their ultimate objectives.
The root of desirer’s remorse lies in allowing immediate external circumstances to dictate internal focus. When individuals observe their current reality—which may not yet reflect their dreams—they often experience doubt, frustration, or impatience. This shift in perspective lowers their overall morale and motivation. By letting temporary surroundings control their emotional state, they fall out of step with the very aspirations they set for themselves. The core vision remains entirely valid, but the path requires consistent mental fortitude and a refusal to let present obstacles cloud future potential.
Recognizing that a goal was never a mistake can be immensely liberating for anyone feeling stuck in their personal growth journey. Experiencing hesitation or regret does not mean a person chose the wrong path; it merely indicates a lapse in positive momentum. Restoring that momentum involves shifting attention away from current limitations and refocusing on the excitement of the original aspiration. With renewed mental clarity and steady emotional habits, anyone can bridge the gap between their current circumstances and the future they truly wish to create.
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You have heard of buyer’s remorse? It really could be more accurately called desirer’s remorse.
Desirer’s remorse is having a desire but not maintaining the vibrational frequency of it. You are letting the reality that you are observing control your vibrational atmosphere, and therefore you are not staying up to speed with your own desire. Your desire isn’t wrong. You didn’t make a mistake. You just didn’t stay up to speed with your desire.
Excerpted from Sedona, AZ on 3/15/14
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Esther (Abraham and Jerry)
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